History repeats

Seriously i dunno how many times i have to blog the same thing over and over again. My life just sux this way. What history? When things dun go accordingly for my dad, he destroys it.

Since young i seen him destroy stuffs...when ever his temper flares, I get new furnitures, phones, clothes and sometimes new pets.

So what happened this time round? What is the cause of this quarrel? the residential /business listing.

Its the time to collect the phone book. He had asked for the acknowledge slip to collect the book. I tot, its only collection...why not.... collection shdnt have any prob.... but still shit happens. He was given a set of the books. He expected 2 sets as we have 2 phone lines in the household. When i came back he told me of this, but i was thinking that it might be 1 set per household. I totally forgot that i had ordered for only one set since i have no use for it. The reason that he wanted 2 sets is that one for me and one for him (plus if there's 2 lines, we must have 2 sets mentality).

So i just explained that it might be the case of 1 house = 1 set theory, he argued that if thats the case since he has 2 hp lines under his name, he should only pay for 1 line.

Then i dunno how the conversation moved on to the residential lines....but in my old flat in Tao Ching, we have call transfer service and my dad paid $20 for it (dunno is monthly or activation). but as the old flat is enc-bloc, we were unable to reuse the old residential line. Thus we were unable to "transfer" the old subscription. I was informed that if we want the old services, we need to pay the activation fees again. And since the phoneline is generally used for surfing the internet and all of us has cell phones, i tot that i shd not be wasting money to activate a service which is not required. And he is unhappy with this cuz it is my fault that he is unable to use this service cuz i transfer it under my name. No matter how many times i explained about the new lines, he doesnt listen. He is currently using my mom's old number but my mom had some subscriptions that is still ongoing but no one is using. My mom buys 4D and she subscripts to the results, she watches Singtel mobile tV on the go and has ringtone sent to her....now that she is gone my dad dun use these services but he doesnt allow me to cancel any of these services....he dun even know he had them (except the 4D results). And i had to pay additional $10 every month for it. After explaining to him he got unhappy and he took out the SIM card and snapped it into 2, asking me to go cancel the line.

Now great, no card = cannot use. But that's not the end of the saga, to cancel the line, i'd need his IC. To hell i'll go if he gives me his IC. So now means I'm paying $50/mth for a useless line which i cant cancel. And let say if he changed his mind, $30 will be wasted for the replacement SIM card.

no matter what, my money is wasted.